Find your freedom.

Sometimes, we find that we've fallen into ginormous black holes, and we keep jumping up in the hopes that eventually, we'll be able to find a bit of leverage and leap on out of there. Some days, it feels that we've done a pretty good job of climbing, and other days, the climb is nothing but a frustrating struggle. Trying to climb yourself out of a deep, dark hole is a lot like trying to get beyond a past relationship: There are just always going to be days where you can see the light at the top more clearly than you can others. I do a lot of preaching that keeping busy is the best route to take, because the busier you make yourself, the less idle time you have to devote your thoughts to your failed relationships, but sometimes, this is a lot easier said than done. We have to let ourselves feel this struggle, because without struggle, there is no bigger and better comeback.