Quit or Commit.

Sometimes, girls, no matter how often you try, you can't twist a guy's arm into wanting to be with you. As a matter of fact, you can never actually convince a guy that now is the right time to be in a relationship. So, what do you do? Simply put, the answer isn't pretty.

The advice I find myself most often dishing out to girls all over is to cut ties with him, and move on. Holding onto the fragile idea of being with someone who doesn't share that same desire can be devastating. Just because you can't see yourself with anybody else, unfortunately, doesn't mean that he can't, either.

Where do you draw the line between a guy with commitment issues and a guy that just... will never be able to commit? And what's the difference? There is no need to dramatically cut a great guy from your life just because he can't give you exactly what you want at the moment. Remember, no two people work on the exact same life schedule. However, if you are able to process more cons than pros in your relationship (specifically, inherent differences that will most likely be the main factors in your potential downfall), it's probably time to say goodbye.

Your guy need a little time to digest your relationship? I've said it before, and I'll say it again. A surefire way to convince him that he wants a relationship with you means giving him space. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. Not every one of our relationships will end in fairytale. But-- if he's worth sticking around, he will come to terms with his commitment issues.